If there is one thing that really annoys the hell out of me and happens to be the BIGGEST turn off, It’s when you just meet someone you’re interested in & the first thing they ask is:
“Are you a TOP or BOTTOM?”!
Honestly, in my opinion that should be the last thing you ask… It’s a little forward and I mean if the guy really is interested in YOU and not what’s in your pants, then that should be the last thing on his mind… UNLESS you are on GRINDR & looking just for a hump and dump lol.
But the only reason I am bringing this up is because recently a guy I liked, specifically was like “I’m 150% a bottom”… & it wasn’t that he was a bottom that made me double think things, because in all reality if I like someone enough I’d be willing to adapt to fulfill any of their needs, but It was the fact that he limited himself and wasn’t willing to adapt and try something new for the sake of a potential relationship.
ANYWAYS, all I’m saying is that chances are if you go into a relationship with SEX as the main factor then it’s NOT going to last… & how IRONIC that’s coming from a guy that has sex for a living o.O
Oh and don’t LIMIT yourself… #TEAMVERSATILE ; ) It keeps things interesting.